Fix io_close() to obey deadline for output, too

Fix io_close() to obey deadline for output, too

A client can delay thread exit indefinitely by not reading output.
Broken in commit 08b94556 (v4.3.20) "Reimplement max_idle without a
separate thread".  Until then, the idle thread aborted a stuck attempt
to flush output.

Denial of service seems possible.

Note that commit 904822e3 moved flushing the output queue from
player_login() to io_close().  It also made io_close() wait for the
client to close the connection.  That wait obeys the deadline.